{"id":4778,"date":"2022-09-19T22:00:00","date_gmt":"2022-09-19T22:00:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/modernsciences.org\/staging\/4414\/?p=4778"},"modified":"2022-09-08T05:27:50","modified_gmt":"2022-09-08T05:27:50","slug":"four-ways-to-tell-if-your-cat-loves-you-based-on-science","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/modernsciences.org\/staging\/4414\/four-ways-to-tell-if-your-cat-loves-you-based-on-science\/","title":{"rendered":"Four ways to tell if your cat loves you \u2013 based on science"},"content":{"rendered":"\n  <figure>\n    <img  decoding=\"async\"  src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAEAAAABAQMAAAAl21bKAAAAA1BMVEUAAP+KeNJXAAAAAXRSTlMAQObYZgAAAAlwSFlzAAAOxAAADsQBlSsOGwAAAApJREFUCNdjYAAAAAIAAeIhvDMAAAAASUVORK5CYII=\"  class=\" pk-lazyload\"  data-pk-sizes=\"auto\"  data-pk-src=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480784\/original\/file-20220824-18-ajy6kp.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&#038;rect=50%2C8%2C5557%2C3724&#038;q=45&#038;auto=format&#038;w=754&#038;fit=clip\" >\n      <figcaption>\n        \n        <span class=\"attribution\"><a class=\"source\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shutterstock.com\/image-photo\/happy-cat-lovely-comfortable-sleeping-by-676724233\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Nitiphonphat\/Shutterstock<\/a><\/span>\n      <\/figcaption>\n  <\/figure>\n\n<span><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/profiles\/emily-blackwell-1367548\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Emily Blackwell<\/a>, <em><a href=\"https:\/\/theconversation.com\/institutions\/university-of-bristol-1211\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">University of Bristol<\/a><\/em><\/span>\n\n<p>Even the most devoted cat owners wonder at some point, perhaps waking up in a cold sweat in the middle of the night, whether their cat really loves them. Dog people like to smugly point out <a href=\"https:\/\/discovery.ucl.ac.uk\/id\/eprint\/10065598\/1\/Martin_Anthropological%20Archaeology.pdf\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">dogs\u2019 long history<\/a> as humankind\u2019s best friend. <\/p>\n\n<p>But research shows cats\u2019 reputation as a cold and aloof pet is undeserved. <\/p>\n\n<p>Because of their evolutionary ancestry, domestic cats are, by their nature, more\nindependent than dogs. The wild ancestors of our cats didn\u2019t live in social groups as canines do. However, during the process of domestication, cats developed the ability to form <a href=\"https:\/\/bvajournals.onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/epdf\/10.1136\/vr.f7278?saml_referr%20er\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social relationships<\/a> not just with other cats, but also with people.<\/p>\n\n<p>While they may not <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.plos.org\/plosone\/article?id=10.1371\/journal.pone.0135109\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">rely upon people<\/a> to feel safe as dogs do, many cats show affection towards their guardians and seem to highly value the company of <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0376635716303424\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">their human companions<\/a>. Their <a href=\"https:\/\/www.tandfonline.com\/doi\/abs\/10.2752\/089279302786992702\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">attachment<\/a> to humans is partly influenced by their <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/epdf\/10.1002\/dev.22281\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">experiences of being handled<\/a> by people <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/epdf\/10.1002\/dev.22281\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">as a kitten<\/a>. <\/p>\n\n<p>Cats behave towards humans in the same way that they respond to their feline friends, so the secret of whether your cat feels bonded to you lies in their behaviour.<\/p>\n\n<h2 id=\"1-look-out-for-scenting\">1. Look out for scenting<\/h2>\n\n<p>The ability to communicate with other cats over long distances and when no longer\nphysically present was an advantage to <a href=\"https:\/\/eprints.soton.ac.uk\/463206\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">their wild ancestors<\/a>. Our pet cats have\nretained this \u201csupersense\u201d and rely heavily on this <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/0304376283901177\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">form of communication <\/a>. <\/p>\n\n<p>In particular, cats <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0195561602001286?via%3Dihub\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">use scent<\/a> to identify members of their <a href=\"https:\/\/pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov\/15123163\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">social group or family<\/a>, by sharing a group scent profile. Cats have scent glands on their flanks, head and around their ears, and often rub their heads against people and objects that are <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mdpi.com\/2076-2615\/12\/3\/298\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">familiar and comforting<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n<p>Does your cat rub its head or side against your legs? The soft sensation you feel against your calves is actually your cat <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/full\/10.1177\/1098612X18771203\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">identifying you as a friend<\/a> and is a huge compliment.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"align-center \">\n            <img  decoding=\"async\"  alt=\"Kitten with its tail up\"  src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAEAAAABAQMAAAAl21bKAAAAA1BMVEUAAP+KeNJXAAAAAXRSTlMAQObYZgAAAAlwSFlzAAAOxAAADsQBlSsOGwAAAApJREFUCNdjYAAAAAIAAeIhvDMAAAAASUVORK5CYII=\"  class=\" pk-lazyload\"  data-pk-sizes=\"auto\"  data-ls-sizes=\"(min-width: 1466px) 754px, (max-width: 599px) 100vw, (min-width: 600px) 600px, 237px\"  data-pk-src=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480787\/original\/file-20220824-24-e1wia3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip\"  data-pk-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480787\/original\/file-20220824-24-e1wia3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=396&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=1 600w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480787\/original\/file-20220824-24-e1wia3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=30&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=396&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=2 1200w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480787\/original\/file-20220824-24-e1wia3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=15&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=396&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=3 1800w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480787\/original\/file-20220824-24-e1wia3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=498&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=1 754w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480787\/original\/file-20220824-24-e1wia3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=30&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=498&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=2 1508w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480787\/original\/file-20220824-24-e1wia3.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=15&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=498&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=3 2262w\" >\n            <figcaption>\n              <span class=\"caption\">A cat walking towards you with its tail up is a good sign.<\/span>\n              <span class=\"attribution\"><a class=\"source\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shutterstock.com\/image-photo\/kitty-tail-225201952\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Miroslav Hlavko\/Shutterstock<\/a><\/span>\n            <\/figcaption>\n          <\/figure>\n\n<h2 id=\"2-watch-how-they-greet-you\">2. Watch how they greet you<\/h2>\n\n<p>One of the most obvious signs that your beloved pet is fond of you, is the way that your cat greets you. When cats greet members of their social group they show signals to indicate friendship and a desire to move closer. Cats also show these signals to humans. <\/p>\n\n<p>A tail held in the upright flagpole position shows a\nfriendly intention (the feline equivalent of a wave), indicating <a href=\"https:\/\/www.mdpi.com\/2076-2615\/12\/3\/298\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">familiarity,\ntrust, and affection<\/a>. Some cats also use an upright question mark shaped tail to <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.co.uk\/Cat-Sense-Feline-Enigma-Revealed\/dp\/0241960452\/ref=asc_df_0241960452\/?tag=googshopuk-21&amp;&amp;linkCode=df0&amp;&amp;hvadid=310867999190&amp;&amp;hvpos=&amp;&amp;hvnetw=g&amp;&amp;hvrand=6336591205490181702&amp;&amp;hvpone=&amp;&amp;hvptwo=&amp;&amp;hvqmt=&amp;&amp;hvdev=c&amp;&amp;hvdvcmdl=&amp;&amp;hvlocint=&amp;&amp;hvlocphy=9045619&amp;&amp;hvtargid=pla-466195438793&amp;&amp;psc=1&amp;&amp;th=1&amp;&amp;psc=1\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">greet someone they like,<\/a> or to motion that they want to play.<\/p>\n\n<p>Cats sometimes <a href=\"https:\/\/www.abebooks.co.uk\/Decoding-Cat-Ultimate-Experts-Explain-Common\/30968807683\/bd?cm_mmc=ggl-_-UK_Shopp_Tradestandard-_-product_id=UK9780358566045USED-_-keyword=&amp;gclid=Cj0KCQjw0oyYBhDGARIsAMZEuMuskXOKgchnNG49CDt_BzmuGgtqOwdEcnMJwRsvwx6neqqRevj8zGYaAkEKEALw_wcB\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">intertwine their tails <\/a> as a sign of friendship and\nthe <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sciencedirect.com\/science\/article\/abs\/pii\/S0168159114002779\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">human equivalent<\/a> of this is to wrap their tail around your calf.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"align-center \">\n            <img  decoding=\"async\"  alt=\"Owner pats cat as it rubs against their legs\"  src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAEAAAABAQMAAAAl21bKAAAAA1BMVEUAAP+KeNJXAAAAAXRSTlMAQObYZgAAAAlwSFlzAAAOxAAADsQBlSsOGwAAAApJREFUCNdjYAAAAAIAAeIhvDMAAAAASUVORK5CYII=\"  class=\" pk-lazyload\"  data-pk-sizes=\"auto\"  data-ls-sizes=\"(min-width: 1466px) 754px, (max-width: 599px) 100vw, (min-width: 600px) 600px, 237px\"  data-pk-src=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480789\/original\/file-20220824-16-go3875.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip\"  data-pk-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480789\/original\/file-20220824-16-go3875.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=400&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=1 600w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480789\/original\/file-20220824-16-go3875.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=30&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=400&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=2 1200w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480789\/original\/file-20220824-16-go3875.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=15&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=400&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=3 1800w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480789\/original\/file-20220824-16-go3875.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=503&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=1 754w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480789\/original\/file-20220824-16-go3875.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=30&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=503&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=2 1508w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480789\/original\/file-20220824-16-go3875.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=15&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=503&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=3 2262w\" >\n            <figcaption>\n              <span class=\"caption\"><\/span>\n              <span class=\"attribution\"><a class=\"source\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shutterstock.com\/image-photo\/domestic-life-pet-cat-welcome-his-1334629826\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">Jaromir Chalabala\/Shutterstock<\/a><\/span>\n            <\/figcaption>\n          <\/figure>\n\n<p>Rolling over and exposing their vulnerable under belly is another gesture that a cat has ultimate trust in you. However cats prefer to be petted on the head and neck area, so this is not usually a request for a belly rub. <\/p>\n\n<p>Attempts to stroke a cat\u2019s belly will often result in a <a href=\"https:\/\/journals.sagepub.com\/doi\/10.1016\/j.jfms.2009.09.011\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">hasty retreat, or even claws<\/a>. The chirrup or trill greeting is a melodious sound that cats make when saying hello to preferred individuals. So if your cat sings to you in this way, be assured they are pleased to see you. <\/p>\n\n<p>That familiar feeling when your cat hits the back of your knee can also be a sign that they feel an extremely close bond to you. The feline version of a high-five, the head bump is usually saved for a cat\u2019s closest feline friends and most trusted humans.<\/p>\n\n<h2 id=\"3-look-for-blinks\">3. Look for blinks<\/h2>\n\n<p>Your cat might also be secretly signalling their affection in the way they look at you. When cats encounter strange humans or other cats they don\u2019t know, they usually greet them with an unblinking stare. But they are more likely to slowly blink at cats they have a good relationship with. <\/p>\n\n<p>Research suggests slow blinks are associated with a positive emotional state and can be a sign of trust, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.nature.com\/articles\/s41598-020-73426-0\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">contentment and affection<\/a>, similar to a human smile. If you wish to return the compliment, blink and your cat might blink back. This is nice a way to bond with your cat if they aren\u2019t keen on being touched.<\/p>\n\n<figure class=\"align-center \">\n            <img  decoding=\"async\"  alt=\"Cat shows belly\"  src=\"data:image\/png;base64,iVBORw0KGgoAAAANSUhEUgAAAAEAAAABAQMAAAAl21bKAAAAA1BMVEUAAP+KeNJXAAAAAXRSTlMAQObYZgAAAAlwSFlzAAAOxAAADsQBlSsOGwAAAApJREFUCNdjYAAAAAIAAeIhvDMAAAAASUVORK5CYII=\"  class=\" pk-lazyload\"  data-pk-sizes=\"auto\"  data-ls-sizes=\"(min-width: 1466px) 754px, (max-width: 599px) 100vw, (min-width: 600px) 600px, 237px\"  data-pk-src=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480791\/original\/file-20220824-16-xwjqpt.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;fit=clip\"  data-pk-srcset=\"https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480791\/original\/file-20220824-16-xwjqpt.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=400&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=1 600w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480791\/original\/file-20220824-16-xwjqpt.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=30&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=400&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=2 1200w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480791\/original\/file-20220824-16-xwjqpt.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=15&amp;auto=format&amp;w=600&amp;h=400&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=3 1800w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480791\/original\/file-20220824-16-xwjqpt.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=45&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=503&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=1 754w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480791\/original\/file-20220824-16-xwjqpt.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=30&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=503&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=2 1508w, https:\/\/images.theconversation.com\/files\/480791\/original\/file-20220824-16-xwjqpt.jpg?ixlib=rb-1.1.0&amp;q=15&amp;auto=format&amp;w=754&amp;h=503&amp;fit=crop&amp;dpr=3 2262w\" >\n            <figcaption>\n              <span class=\"caption\"><\/span>\n              <span class=\"attribution\"><a class=\"source\" href=\"https:\/\/www.shutterstock.com\/image-photo\/beautiful-shorthaired-young-cat-sleeping-belly-1802886784\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">YRABOTA\/Shutterstock<\/a><\/span>\n            <\/figcaption>\n          <\/figure>\n\n<h2 id=\"4-they-get-up-close\">4. They get up close<\/h2>\n\n<p>Cats are very protective of their personal space and <a href=\"https:\/\/reader.elsevier.com\/reader\/sd\/pii\/S0168159199000301?token=B1C25B7B05%204DBACC04EA0BD9C2361E3EE796A686A4EDB45E6FA4BFB13A8FF623947CE59732A3%20C0CEE2498B38B69F739D&amp;originRegion=eu-west-%201&amp;originCreation=20220822094911\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">don\u2019t like unwelcome guests<\/a> to invade it. If a cat allows you to get close to them, that suggests a close bond, particularly where the contact is frequent or long lasting. <\/p>\n\n<p>Curling up on your lap for a nap is a sign of deep trust. Grooming only happens between cats with a warm relationship, so licking your hand or face can be a show of endearment, even though those barbed tongues may not feel all that gentle.<!-- Below is The Conversation's page counter tag. 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